There are factors that orchestrate our behavior, our choices and ultimately our destiny. These factors very often go unseen and undetected consciously. However, they push and drive us without our deliberate permission. The individuals that make up our personal community are subject to this dynamic the bible uses a notion to define our circle "two will not be together unless they agree". This book will give insight into the driving elements that not only create the character and purpose of the people around us; It will also explain why we are friendly or associated with those in our lives. Are you sure that the people we socialize with, date, and marry are the people who presented themselves? What you see is not always what you get. Some people have unspoken agendas and the behaviors are telling us something and we may not be listening. Revealed in this writing is the how and why we stumble into the minefields of relational horrors.